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“Every bit of dignity we had was shattered”

WILPF’s Jamila Afghani and Hareer Hashim share concerns and demands after evacuating from Afghanistan

Selfie of Hareer and Jamila wearing an hejab and their masks
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WILPF International Secretariat
1 September 2021

“Every bit of dignity we had was shattered”: WILPF’s Jamila Afghani and Hareer Hashim share concerns and demands after evacuating from Afghanistan

As the Taliban takeover of Afghanistan escalated in early August, WILPF Afghanistan’s president – celebrated human rights activist Jamila Afghani – and the Section’s programme manager, Hareer Hashim, knew they had to find a way to evacuate.

Across the country, women human rights defenders and other human rights activists were increasingly being targeted by the Taliban – their values of peace, freedom, and democracy an affront to a group that has historically oppressed women and denied their rights to education and free speech.

Together with their families – including Jamila’s three young children – the two women attempted to access Kabul’s Hamid Karzai International Airport for a week before they were finally able to cross the checkpoints. Aided by WILPF, other humanitarian organisations, and personal contacts, the group of 11 people were safely evacuated to Norway on 25 August.

From the hotel where they are currently in quarantine, Jamila and Hareer spoke with WILPF’s International Secretariat about their harrowing experiences, the behaviour they witnessed from US soldiers, and the failures of the international community to protect the rights and dignity of the Afghan people during the current crisis.

WILPF: What was it like trying to get through the checkpoints at the airport?

Hareer: On our first attempt to evacuate, we reached the Taliban checkpoints and found they were actually quite cooperative with us. At the checkpoints managed by the US military, we faced the most degrading, dangerous, and dehumanising behaviour. We thought the US soldiers valued human rights and democracy, but at that checkpoint we faced utter chaos.

Jamila has a disability and I was trying to protect her and her daughter, who’s young and was suffocating in the middle of the crowd because she’s so tiny. We had to hold her up and she got injured in the process. I fell and was stomped on. We were holding up Jamila’s crutches in the air, waving and screaming. The soldiers didn’t care.

I saw that in our own homeland, within the hierarchy we were at the lowest level. It didn’t matter if you were a human rights activist, if you were a person with disabilities, if you had kids. It was everyone for themselves. The people who were supposed to help did not care.

Jamila: People were not being prioritised. We heard repeatedly that criminals were being let in, while women human rights activists and others were being left behind. It was mismanaged. It was chaos. They should have had proper mechanisms in place for evacuating people in a more organised way.

WILPF: How did you finally manage to get into the airport?

Jamila: I had visas for 11 countries to get out, but every time we tried to get into the airport our attempts would fail. For about a week, we would go to the airport and wait for many hours to reach the different checkpoints. But the telephones near the gates did not work, the internet wasn’t working – all communications were down – so we were not able to communicate with our contacts inside the airport to tell them we were at the gate and someone should come and support us.

Each day, we would have to return to a different location rather than going home, and come back to the airport the next day to try again. We tried almost every possible way to get in. But they weren’t basing entry on who deserved or needed to get through.

Hareer: Through friends and family, we were able to secure a code word that was recognised by the Norwegian military, and that’s how we were able to cross. But when we crossed, we had to jump into sewage.

The military personnel were not even allowed to help us cross the bridge. We were so worried about how Jamila was going to cross because of her disability; she wears a prosthesis. We didn’t know how it would work. Luckily, my father put her on his back and carried her, but she could have fallen down and gotten severely injured.

We literally jumped into sewage, which was filled with [human excrement] and we don’t even know what else. They stripped us of everything we had. Our identity. Our dignity. The last memory we have of Afghanistan is so scathed by this memory. It’s a memory that still gives us nightmares. It was so dehumanising. Every bit of dignity we had was shattered.

Jamila: We have to find a more human, dignified way to evacuate people, to evacuate women and women human rights defenders. And in a safe way. We cannot allow others to go through what we went through. There must be a proper strategy. At the moment, the Kabul airport is out of the question – it’s extremely dangerous. We should find some alternative routes to cross people into neighbouring countries.

Selfie of Hareer and Jamila wearing an hejab and their masks

WILPF: What actions should the international community be taking right now to help Afghanistan?

Jamila: The elected government just left us in a single day without any bit of restriction on the Taliban. They created a vacuum of power in the country. I will personally never forgive them for this huge mistake, this unacceptable action. They have created a vacuum of power and now the Taliban are on the ground. Now the Taliban are in charge. They have come as a victorious group. But 36 million people are living in Afghanistan, in need of food, in need of the basic necessities of life.

I am calling on the international community to stop a major collapse of the system. At least we have a government system. At least we have some trained people able to manage the system. And if we are not having that trust building, everyone will leave Afghanistan. And we will lose everything we have.

I think the international community should accept this reality.

But it should be with conditions. That the Taliban must respect human rights, must respect women’s rights, must work in line with international conventions as members of the international community. We must push for this.

This is not an ideal scenario. This is the least we can do at the moment.

WILPF: Can you tell us about life in Afghanistan prior to this crisis?

Hareer: I felt the most alive in my motherland. I felt accepted, I felt like I belonged somewhere. There was a sense of empowerment because you’re doing something for the people of your nation, and you feel like you’re giving back to your community. You feel good and happy and so excited about everything good that’s happened, all the progress that’s been made in the past 20 years.

Kabul has a reviving vibe to it. The weather rejuvenates your soul. The people are so hospitable. They are full of hope. Despite everything we’ve been through, despite all the obstacles. We’ve been through a lot – 40 plus years of war – and we have every reason to give up but our people have never given up. Our people have never surrendered. Our people continue to struggle and look forward to life. They have the biggest smiles on their faces. It’s so inspiring.

And I feel so relieved to be Afghan. I know for a lot of people it could be a curse but for me it’s been a blessing.

That’s why it also breaks your heart when you have to leave it behind.

Listen to Hareer speak about her life in Afghanistan prior to the current crisis.

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Melissa Torres


Prior to being elected Vice-President, Melissa Torres was the WILPF US International Board Member from 2015 to 2018. Melissa joined WILPF in 2011 when she was selected as a Delegate to the Commission on the Status of Women as part of the WILPF US’ Practicum in Advocacy Programme at the United Nations, which she later led. She holds a PhD in Social Work and is a professor and Global Health Scholar at Baylor College of Medicine and research lead at BCM Anti-Human Trafficking Program. Of Mexican descent and a native of the US/Mexico border, Melissa is mostly concerned with the protection of displaced Latinxs in the Americas. Her work includes training, research, and service provision with the American Red Cross, the National Human Trafficking Training and Technical Assistance Centre, and refugee resettlement programs in the U.S. Some of her goals as Vice-President are to highlight intersectionality and increase diversity by fostering inclusive spaces for mentorship and leadership. She also contributes to WILPF’s emerging work on the topic of displacement and migration.

Jamila Afghani


Jamila Afghani is the President of WILPF Afghanistan which she started in 2015. She is also an active member and founder of several organisations including the Noor Educational and Capacity Development Organisation (NECDO). Elected in 2018 as South Asia Regional Representative to WILPF’s International Board, WILPF benefits from Jamila’s work experience in education, migration, gender, including gender-based violence and democratic governance in post-conflict and transitional countries.

Sylvie Jacqueline Ndongmo


Sylvie Jacqueline NDONGMO is a human rights and peace leader with over 27 years experience including ten within WILPF. She has a multi-disciplinary background with a track record of multiple socio-economic development projects implemented to improve policies, practices and peace-oriented actions. Sylvie is the founder of WILPF Cameroon and was the Section’s president until 2022. She co-coordinated the African Working Group before her election as Africa Representative to WILPF’s International Board in 2018. A teacher by profession and an African Union Trainer in peace support operations, Sylvie has extensive experience advocating for the political and social rights of women in Africa and worldwide.

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In response to the takeover of Afghanistan by the Taliban and its targeted attacks on civil society members, WILPF Afghanistan issued several statements calling on the international community to stand in solidarity with Afghan people and ensure that their rights be upheld, including access to aid. The Section also published 100 Untold Stories of War and Peace, a compilation of true stories that highlight the effects of war and militarisation on the region. 

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