War does not only destroy buildings and infrastructure. It tears apart the everyday fabric of life: relationships, trust, access to clean water and food, healthcare, and a sense of safety. It poisons the air, leaves land scattered with mines and shells, and makes the ordinary unliveable. And yet, people go on surviving. These survival strategies—based on care, mutual aid, and the daily work of sustaining life—offer a roadmap for what post-war recovery should look like.
Care, Survival, Everyday Life, and Violence
The Caring to Survive, Surviving to Care project explores how care, survival, violence, and everyday life intersect during wartime. Drawing on feminist methodology, we treat care not as a secondary or private sphere, but as the core of social reproduction and societal resilience. Care is not just an emotion or moral duty—it is labor, often unpaid, invisible, and unequally distributed.
Interviews from Kharkiv and Lviv regions show that it is through care—within families, neighborhoods, and communities—that people rebuild what has been broken. Women feed elderly neighbors, protect children and support one another in the face of intensified inequality and absent institutions. Teachers and social workers implement strategies to protect children and the elderly from the stress and psychological wounds of war. LGBTQI+ organizations become hubs where people of all gender identities and sexual orientations can look for help – whether they are displaced, struggling with mental health during war, or wanting to support others in their community through organized volunteering.
Why Talk About Recovery Now?
Despite ongoing destruction, it is crucial to discuss the future—to avoid repeating the mistakes of the past. In the context of war and post-conflict recovery, frameworks like “Build Back Better,” originally developed to respond to natural disasters, have often been misapplied. These models tend to emphasize neoliberal, profit-driven, and externally imposed solutions that ignore the divisions and inequalities created by war, as well as the care and social reproduction necessary to heal communities.
The problem with such approaches is that they prioritize economic growth, infrastructure, and market liberalization over the social fabric, care work, and local knowledge that sustain communities during crises. Examples from Iraq, Bosnia, and Afghanistan highlight these risks:
- In Iraq, after 2003, reconstruction focused on oil, infrastructure, and foreign investment, which led to the wealth of the country being controlled by international corporations and elites, while the majority of the population was excluded from resource management. This approach deepened distrust, social division, and inequality, especially among ethnic and religious groups, undermining long-term stability and trust in state institutions.
- In Bosnia, following the 1992–1995 war, international organizations and reform programs implemented economic liberalization, privatization, and institutional reforms. However, these measures often ignored complex ethnic and social dynamics, resulting in increased division, unemployment, poverty, and a lack of trust in government institutions. This hampered recovery efforts and fueled new conflicts.
- In Afghanistan, externally imposed economic reforms and rapid market liberalization failed to consider the country’s cultural, social, and regional realities. As a result, many programs proved ineffective, leaving the population vulnerable to dependency on humanitarian aid and international organizations. This deepened marginalization and internal divisions, hindering the development of sustainable, inclusive institutions.
Reports from WILPF, such as “Post-Conflict Economic Reform”, emphasize that external, cookie-cutter models tend to undermine local agency and fail to address the root causes of inequality and social disintegration. Instead of supporting community-based recovery, these approaches often entrench neoliberal policies that neglect the needs of marginalized groups and the care work vital for genuine resilience and healing.
Main takeaway: The risks of externally driven, neoliberal, and standardized models of recovery are well-documented. They often exacerbate existing inequalities, weaken social cohesion, and ignore the social reproduction and care that are essential for true recovery and resilience.
What Is Feminist Recovery?
Feminist recovery is not just about women—it’s about centering people, bodies, vulnerability, and daily life. It’s about recognizing care as labor and as the foundation of society. It means evaluating recovery not by economic metrics, but by well-being, equality, and community resilience.
This approach requires:
- Investment in social infrastructure: healthcare, education, housing, transport.
- Recognition of care as a political and economic priority.
- Inclusion of marginalised voices in decision-making.
- Support for local initiatives, not just top-down mega-projects.
Avoiding Mistakes in Ukraine
To ensure Ukraine’s recovery is successful and sustainable, it is essential to learn from the failures of externally driven, neoliberal, and cookie-cutter models of post-conflict reconstruction observed in Iraq, Bosnia, and Afghanistan. These approaches often neglect the vital importance of social cohesion, local agency, and care work—elements that are crucial for healing communities and building resilience. Instead, Ukraine must develop a recovery framework that prioritizes social infrastructure, recognizes care as a political and economic necessity, and actively involves marginalized voices in decision-making. Supporting local initiatives and community-led projects, rather than merely relying on top-down mega-projects, will help rebuild a more equitable, inclusive, and resilient society. By centering the lived experiences, survival strategies, and social reproduction of those most affected by war, Ukraine can avoid repeating the mistakes of the past and lay the foundation for a just and sustainable future.
This article is part of the “Caring to Survive, Surviving to Care” project implemented by WILPF, the Center for Social and Labor Research, Geneva Graduate Institute and National Karazin University in Kharkiv. The project documents gendered survival strategies, social reproduction, and the risks of neoliberal recovery in Ukraine.